QUICK QUESTIONS TO BE ANSWERED BY OUR NURSING LEADERS INDIVIDUALLY. By Olabanji Joel

QUICK QUESTIONS TO BE ANSWERED INDIVIDUALLY by Olabanji Joel. DO YOU WANT YOUR CHILDREN TO BE LIKE YOU, IF YOUR ANSWER IS NO THEN YOU NEED TO WORK ON YOURSELF TO BE THE KIND OF PERSON YOU WANT THEM TO BE. AS A LEADER, DO YOU WANT YOUR CHILDREN TO BE THE KIND OF NURSE THAT YOU ARE?? AS A LEADER, DO YOU WANT YOUR CHILDREN IN THE NURSING YOU ARE LEADING? CAN YOUR CHILDREN BE PROUD OF YOU IN THE FUTURE AS A NURSE WHO HAS IMPACTED NURSING POSITIVELY? AS A LEADER IN NURSING, HOW MANY OF YOUR CHILDREN ARE NURSES OR STUDENT NURSES? WHAT WILL BE SAID OF YOU AFTER YOUR RETIREMENT FROM ACTIVE SERVICE? WILL YOU BE WELL SPOKEN OF OR CURSED? CAN YOUR GENERATION BE PROUD OF YOU AS SOMEONE WHO HAS IMPACTED NURSING POSITIVELY? AS A LEADER, ARE YOU A MENTOR? AS A LEADER, DO YOU HAVE PEOPLE LOOKING UP TO BE THE KIND OF PERSON YOU ARE? WHAT WILL YOU BE REMEMBERED FOR? WILL YOU BE REFERRED TO AS A TRUE FIGHTER OR DESTINY DESTROYER? CHANGE YOUR WAYS SO THAT YOUR CHILDREN CAN INHERIT A BETTER NURSING FROM YOU. THANKS Olabanji Joel.

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