PRIORITIZING WHAT MATTERS by Olabanji Joel Orolugbagbe

Yesterday, I discharged a very demanding patient home. As she was about to leave the ward with her daughter, she called me over for a hug and expressed her gratitude. She told her daughter that I was a good nurse and was happy that I was part of her care team throughout her hospital stay. This gesture hit me differently, and it motivated me to do even more for my patients.

As an adult with family responsibilities, I have come to realize that my profession is not just a job but a source of sustenance. I have learned to prioritize my role as a nurse above every thing I was actively doing before having a family, and the appreciation from patients like this one means a lot to me.

Recently, I had a conversation with my cousin, and I shared with him that the only thing that can get under my skin is being told I am not good at my job because I see it as a threat to my source of livelihood and if genuinely done, I see it as a push to improve myself. I have accepted that I have shifted my focus from hobbies like playing football, tennis, singing and the trumpet to my profession, which takes care of my family's needs even though I still do these things once in a while when work and life permits. However, the compliments from patients and colleagues have reassured me that I am on the right path. 

Being a responsible husband, father, and nurse brings me fulfilment. I take pride in making a positive impact on my colleagues, mentees and patients' lives, and that's what matters most to me.

Olabanji Joel Orolugbagbe

Proud Nurse